Nicola Dexter: Stress Management Consultant & Hypnotherapist
Testimonials
Testimonial - original on file
Before meeting Nicola, life was dark, confusing and a constant battle of emotions. I was so wound up in my own insecurities and worries, that I pushed people away and became a monster, constantly flying off the handle at miniscule issues. When friends and family tried to pick me up and tell me to enjoy life, I couldn't understand what there was to enjoy, there seemed no way out.
I was at the end of my tether and stumbled across Nicola's website and was drawn to it so much so, that I promptly contacted her to arrange a free consultation. Walking into the warmth of her flat, the serenity was calming and I felt I was in a sort of sanctuary. Nicola made me so comfortable and explained what she could do for me. She asked me about what I wanted to achieve and what I wanted life to be; this seemed strange, someone actually asking me what I want instead of the world expecting so much from me! Obviously, I was skeptical and nervous but decided to arrange my first consultation.
The first consultation appointment arrived and as I relaxed, broke down my barriers and poured out my life and past problems, Nicola gracefully guided me through it all, enabling me to understand what it was that was making me crumble inside. Nicola showed me that the previous misconceptions that were masking my current emotions didn't need to be carried; they needed to be cleared. At the end of my first consultation, I felt, for the first time in a long time, calm, serene and could finally see a slight ray of light.
Now, after a couple of further, really progressive appointments, I feel like I have closed the door to a dark, angry, lonely life, bitter at what the world has thrown at me and opened a door to a life filled with endless possibilities, happiness, enjoyment and positivity. Nicola has enabled me to deal with situations suitably, enabling me to deal with issues within my family positively and enabled me to start enjoying life and the beauty of it. I now put myself first, I am the most important person in my life now and damn, it feels good!
I cannot thank Nicola enough and I cannot recommend her kindness, warmth, understanding and straight-talking; as my grandmother would say "she's the tonic we all need in life!"
Thank you Nicola, thank you for inviting me to enjoy life, I will never forget your hard work and don't think words can ever illustrate my sheer gratitude.
KL 2008
The following is a poem written by one of my former clients
A Timeless Room
In the comfort of your chair
Secrets unfold behind closed doors
A heavy heart, a cross to bear,
There sits no judge, to lay no lawsIn a room with no walls they cannot hear,
A sweet voice sings to relinquish one’s fears
A kindred spirit He did send
The Angels tell me you are my friendA timeless clock rushes by,
The trust created won’t be denied.
The owl hoots – one leaves with a sigh
I pack my bags for I have cried.Another dark cloud lifts from the sky,
Thou art my Sun, and I a Star
My pledge to thee when I will fly,
To lay a life – no matter how far.
Testimonial (original on file)
As a result of a session with Nicola my blood pressure reading reduced from high to just below borderline which is encouraging. However, the change in my physical well being that is most notable is the healing of my left ankle. I endured an injury to my left ankle when I was 7 years old. There has been a weakness there ever since and I had become accustomed to a dragging pain or soreness that I pretty much experienced the whole time. I have had physiotherapy and carried out exercises to strengthen the tendons but had just accepted that was how my ankle was. Immediately after my session with Nicola the 'weakness' in my ankle disappeared. I must admit it felt strange at first to feel no pain and I dreaded the discomfort coming back. It has now been over three months since the session and my ankle is fine.
Testimonial (original on file) -TP
After our last session, I am still feeling great. I ended the relationship which I was in, as I just couldn't be around someone so negative anymore. It was a hard thing to do, as I really loved him, but discovered that I wanted to be happy and didn't want to be around people who drag me down with their negativity. Since then I have just been enjoying my life, I have realised how many great friends I have and I am in no rush to find another partner, as I now know that only I can make myself happy and I don't need anyone else to do that.
I just want to say thank you so much for all the help. I feel like a brand new person with a lust for life! I am enrolling myself in a hypnotherapy course. You have inspired me so much and turned my life around and I hope I can touch people's lives and help them like you helped me. I want everyone to feel this good!
Other Testimonials
All the other testimonials are on the individual pages for the problems treated - eg smoking, panic attacks, lack of confidence, phobias etc.
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Nicola Dexter